{"id":2012,"date":"2018-01-28T05:15:19","date_gmt":"2018-01-28T10:15:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cwives.com\/?p=2012"},"modified":"2019-04-02T12:00:47","modified_gmt":"2019-04-02T16:00:47","slug":"valentines-day-victory-in-your-bedroom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/valentines-day-victory-in-your-bedroom\/","title":{"rendered":"Valentine&#8217;s Day Victory in Your Bedroom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>What is defeating you sexually?<\/strong> Wives can be defeated by:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>Lack of energy for sex:<\/strong> \u201cI\u2019m just too tired. Maybe once the kids are older and out of the house, I\u2019ll have more energy for sex.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>Simmering resentment toward your husband:<\/strong> \u201cI\u2019m still mad at him for ______, _____, and ______, so he can forget about sex until he figures out what I\u2019m mad about and what he should do about it.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>Negative thoughts about your body:<\/strong> \u201cMy _______ is too big\/small so I don\u2019t feel sexy.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>Fear of appearing silly or inadequate :<\/strong> \u201cMy husband will laugh or I\u2019ll feel uncomfortable if I try something new in the bedroom.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>Perfectionism:<\/strong> \u201cI was planning on having sex today but then _______ happened. Now it\u2019s all ruined so forget the whole thing.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\">February brings Valentine\u2019s Day\u2014the perfect day for you to step out of your sexual comfort zone and experience victory in your bedroom. Aren\u2019t you tired of defeat, of being robbed of the passionate intimacy God has planned for your marriage?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\">For wives, victory in the bedroom starts with our mindset. We have to make up our minds that we will no longer be controlled by defeatist thoughts about sex. We will no longer let fear or perfectionism squelch our sexual desire.<strong> If we can talk ourselves out of enjoying sex, then we can talk ourselves right back into it.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><strong>What defeats you sexually? What tips do you have for experiencing victory in the bedroom?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is defeating you sexually? Wives can be defeated by: Lack of energy for sex: \u201cI\u2019m just too tired. Maybe once the kids are older&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":6547,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_expiration-date-status":"saved","_expiration-date":0,"_expiration-date-type":"","_expiration-date-categories":[],"_expiration-date-options":[],"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[99,302],"tags":[103,171,105,172],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2012"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2012"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2012\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jenniferdegler.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}