October Scare Dare

October’s Dare will give you goose bumps, but don’t worry, you’ll be cuddled up with your husband at the time! For an bonus date night this month, you can watch the Fan the Flame ONLINE video presented by Dr. Jennifer Degler, filled with other ways to make your spouse scream. 

Supplies: Scary movie or TV show, blanket, snacks

Start by choosing a classic scary movie or TV show for you and your husband to watch together. Below is a list of suggestions, but please know we don’t endorse all the content in these movies—use your discretion. The goal is to have a fun evening together, so if a certain movie will leave you too scared to sleep, then don’t watch that particular movie or show.

Once you’ve picked your movie, buy snacks that go along with the movie’s theme. For example, if you’re watching Jaws, you could buy shark gummies or Goldfish crackers. Or for Netflix’s Stranger Things show, you could make Eggo Waffle ice cream sandwiches. And if you’re watching Beetlejuice, chilled shrimp cocktails would be perfect!

Find a cozy blanket and set the stage in front of your television with snacks, drinks, and blanket. Invite your husband to join you under the blanket as you snuggle together while watching your movie. During the scariest parts, ask him to put his arm around you. He’ll get a kick out of being your hero!

When the credits finally roll, start kissing your man and take it from there! Try listening to our Scare Dare Playlist on the CWIVES Spotify channel while you’re having sex to add to the goose bumps your husband is already giving you! Who knows, maybe the Halloween theme song will add to your delicious shivers…

SCARY MOVIE SUGGESTIONS:
Jaws
The Birds
Rear Window
Vertigo
Dial M for Murder
Hocus Pocus
Ghostbusters
Little Shop of Horrors
Edward Scissorhands
The Addams Family
Beetlejuice
Creature from the Black Lagoon
Twilight
The Blob
Grizzly
Young Frankenstein
Dracula
Wolfman (70’s)

 

BONUS DARE: After you have watched your spooky Halloween movie, make another movie date night to watch the Fan the Flame ONLINE video with your spouse. ORDER HERE!

Dr. Jennifer’s wildly popular live Fan the Flame: A Wife’s Guide to Igniting Sexual Intimacy in Marriage seminar is available for the first time as an online video you can view on your device or computer! You’ll receive your link to view the 2 hour video for up to 4 times, along with a link to download a PDF of the fabulous 19-page companion outline (you don’t want to miss the two pages of orgasm tips!)

And, as a special BONUS, you’ll receive links to download the MP3 audio and PDF outline of Dr. Jennifer’s presentation Passionate Intimacy for Couples.

Fan the Flame is a fast-paced, fun 2-hour video for married and engaged women who want practical, up-to-date information on how to have satisfying, soul-connecting, married sex for a lifetime.
Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Degler will have you laughing non-stop while you learn how to:
• Create sexual desire and pleasure in your body
• Deepen emotional connection in marriage
• Cultivate a positive, enthusiastic, biblical attitude toward sex
• Make sex sizzle after children and menopause
• Make friends with your hormones
• Eliminate sexual pain
• See sex as God’s good gift to couples
Whether you watch alone or with your friends during an unforgettable Girls’ Night In or MOPS After Dark, Fan the Flame will revolutionize your thinking about married sex and help you create the smoking hot sex life you deserve.
“My friend, K., really wants me to stress to you how much you’ve changed her life. She’s been married for 25 years and NEVER enjoyed sexual intimacy with her husband because it was painful. She is finally experiencing what God intended, the way God intended it! 🙂 You changed her life and her husband’s life!” J.C., Branson, Missouri

BONUS MP3 Audio and Outline: Passionate love is part of God’s design for marriage. Have you settled for feeling like roommates? You and your husband can listen together to Dr. Jennifer’s fun and eye-opening talk on how to love passionately by creating great romance and great sex.

Topics covered include male/female differences in sexuality and King Solomon’s formula for passionate married sex. Best of all, Dr. Jennifer shares tips to help your husband become a more sensitive, skilled lover. Designed for a husband and wife audience, this audio covers material not included in Fan the Flame.