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October 2019 Quiz Your Man Dare

October’s Dare tests your husband’s knowledge of female sexuality. Quiz your man on these sexy facts that every husband needs to know! For every question he gets right, give him a long kiss. Six correct answers equals the sexual activity of his choice! Be sure to check out the fun playlist on our Spotify CWIVES channel called Quiz Your Man Dare Playlist that you can use for sexy background music as you quiz your guy.

Download a printable version of the quiz here. 

1) How long is the average vagina?

2) Men have at least _____ times more testosterone than women.

    a. 3
    b. 5
    c. 8
    d. 10

3) The #1 sexual difficulty Christian wives report is:

      a. lack of energy
      b. not being attracted to their husband
      c. hormonal issues
      d. headaches

4) What time of day is the average woman most likely to have an orgasm?       

5) A wife wants sex as a consequence of feeling _______________________________.

      a. her husband’s strong desire for sex.
      b. emotionally connected to her husband.
      c. guilty about how long it’s been since sex has happened
      d. insecure about her body. 

6) In what percentage of marriages does the husband have a lower sex drive than his wife?        

7) A Christian wife often feels a rush of connection and attraction to her husband when he:

      a. takes his shirt off.
      b. suggests they watch TV naked.
      c. prays aloud for her.
      d. grabs her hand and places it on his genitals. 

8) Which of the following are true?

      a. Wives tend to not see themselves as sexual persons.
      b. Wives tend to see sex as something they “do” for their husbands rather than something they do for 
          themselves.
      c. Wives tend to settle for “sex was good for him so it doesn’t matter if it was good for me.”
      d. All of the above are true. 

9) One in ______ women will experience sexual abuse before age 18.

      a. 4
      b. 10
      c. 35
      d. 100

10) True or false? It is normal for wives to rarely think about sex and to not feel a physical desire for sex until they are already engaged in sexual activity.

Answers:

1) 3 to 5 inches long, but the vagina lengthens and widens during sexual arousal to 5 to 7 inches.

2) D. Men have at least 10 times more testosterone than women. This makes husbands have a more “assertive” sexual desire that leads them to actively pursue sex. Women have more estrogen than men which makes wives have a more “receptive” sexual desire that leads them to be available, but not as likely to actively purse sex.

3) A. Feeling a lack of energy and too tired for sex is a very common experience for wives, so they have to learn to save energy for sex.

4) Morning. A woman’s testosterone supply is replenished during sleep and is highest in the morning, on awakening, and falls by as much as 1/3 to 1/2 during the day.

5) B. A wife wants sex as a consequence of feeling emotional connection and love. If she feels disconnected from her husband, she’s likely to want to reestablish emotional connection prior to having sex, and she won’t enjoy sex fully unless she feels an emotional connection.

6) 20 to 30 percent. In at least 20 percent of marriages (maybe up to 30 percent), the husband is not as interested in sex as his wife is. Typically, this is not because her desire level is unusually high for a woman—it’s that he has a lower sex drive as compared to the average man.

7) C. A wife often feels tremendous emotional connection (which may lead to sexual attraction) when her husband prays with and for her.

8) D. All of the above are true. For passion in marriage, a wife needs to see herself as a sexual person who takes responsibility for her own pleasure. Sex has to be as good for her as it is for him if it’s going to be good for them both for a lifetime.

9) A. One in 4 women will experience sexual abuse before age 18, and over a lifetime, one in 3 women will be sexually abused/assaulted. So, 25% of women are sexually abused as children/teenagers, and a third of women will experience some sort of sexual abuse/assault over their lifetimes. Many wives with negative attitudes toward sex have experienced sexual trauma and never received effective treatment.

10) True. Because of their hormones and brain structure, wives rarely think about sex unless prompted and often do not feel sexual desire until after they are engaged in sexual activity. Wives have to learn to initiate sex without a particularly strong drive, trusting that they will feel desire after their body kicks in and begins to respond sexually.