November is a month to give thanks. This month’s Dare will help you initiate a thankful sexual encounter with your husband.

Run a bath and invite your husband to join you in the bathtub (or a shower if you prefer). You want him to be clean for this Dare which can done either in the bathtub or afterward. Don’t forget to set the mood with our “Clean Fun in the Shower Dare Playlist” on Spotify. 

Starting with his head and working down to his feet, tell him what you are thankful for about him while caressing that part of his body (you might want to use some body lotion or massage oil). For example, you might say, “I’m thankful that God gave you:

* your sharp mind that works hard to provide for our family.

* your ears that listen to all my stories.

* your mouth that kisses me so well.

* your hard-working hands that keep the yard looking good and me feeling good.

*  your feet that go to work every day plus countless soccer games and ballet recitals.

Save his “best” parts for last to build his anticipation. Don’t be surprised if one or both of you get a little teary-eyed during this Dare. Expressing genuine appreciation and gratitude is a powerful bonding experience.

DOUBLE DARE: In addition to using your hands to caress his body, use your mouth as well.