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Fishbowl Dare- May 2023

Whew, busy May is like December without the gifts! It’s easy for couples to get disconnected when schedules fill up with end-of-school activities, graduations, weddings, etc. The Fishbowl Dare will help you reconnect with your husband and build emotional intimacy before your sexual intimacy.

Supplies: Glass or plastic bowl, slips of paper with questions on them, floral lingerie.

Print out this PDF of 74 questions and cut them up into slips of paper with one question on each slip. Fold them once and place in the bowl. Slip into this pretty floral chemise we found on Amazon for only $19. It’s perfect for Spring and comes in plus sizes too!

Invite your husband to play Fishbowl. Take turns drawing out a question and answering it. Notice how your attraction to your spouse grows as you take turns sharing and listening. When the mood is right, put the Fishbowl aside and get busy!

Hang on to the question slips and use them again whenever you two need to build emotional intimacy before sexual intimacy.

We created a Spotify playlist of Fishbowl songs you can play as background music.

It’s easiest to use the PDF to print out the questions, but in case you want to preview them, they are listed below. They were written by Logan Levkoff, Ph.D., for use with couples on Married at First Sight. Some questions have been deleted or adapted for use by Christian married couples as part of the CWIVES.com Fishbowl Dare.  http://www.loganlevkoff.com/mafs

1. Describe/or act out your first kiss.
2. What song gets you in the mood?
3. What is your favorite romantic or sexy scene in a movie?
4. What is the worst pick up line you’ve used or heard?
5. What is the most unusual thing you’ve ever heard of someone doing in the bedroom?
6. What clothes do you feel sexiest in?
7. What is your idea of a perfect romantic evening?
8. If you weren’t in your current profession, what would you be?
9. Who was your first crush?
10. If you could have had a relationship-superpower, what would it be?
11. What was your proudest moment?  What’s something you are proud of?
12. If you were stranded on a desert island, what three things would you want with you?
13. What is your favorite song(s) of all time?
14. What was your first impression of me?
15. Which part of your body do you like touched the most?
16. What upsets you most in a friendship?
17. What makes you happiest in our marriage?
18. When do you feel sexiest?
19. If you had to give me a new first name, what would it be and why?
20. What makes you sad?
21. What makes you happy?
22. What three words describe you best?
23. What is the best relationship advice you’ve ever gotten?
24. What is your first childhood memory?
25. If tomorrow was the end of the world, how would you want to spend today?
26. Who is the person you most admire?
27. What color reflects your personality and why?
28. What is your idea of romance?
29. What’s the sexiest thing a couple can do together?
30. When you look at a man or woman, what’s the first thing you notice?
31. If you had to eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
32. What is an absolute deal breaker in a relationship?
33. What causes are you passionate about?
34. Who is the person you admire most and why?
35. What are three things that surprise you about me?
36. Is there a sexy/romantic movie scene you’ve always wanted to act out?
37. Where is one place you’ve always wanted to go? Why?
38. What has been the best decision you’ve ever made?
39. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
40. If you were a rapper, what would your name be?
41. If you could plan a romantic trip anywhere in the world, where would it be?
42. If you could get a tattoo (or a new one), what would it be and why?
43. What is a particularly sexy part of your spouse’s body?
44. What would be the perfect way to celebrate Valentine’s Day/Birthdays/Holidays?
45. What word is sexiest to you?
46. What song best represents our marriage?
47. If we were to take another honeymoon or romantic vacation, where would you want to go?
48. When do you find your spouse to be at his/her sexiest?
49. If I wanted to turn you on, what would I have to do? What would I have to wear?
50. Where (location, not a body part) would you love to be intimate that you haven’t tried yet?
51. What goal would you love to achieve that you haven’t done yet?
52. What type of parent or grandparent would you want to be one day?
53. What is your guilty pleasure?
54. What gets you in the mood for lovemaking? And what gets you in the mood for passion-fueled sex?
55. How did you learn about sex?
56. What relationship did you see growing up that was a good model to follow?
57. What relationship did you see growing up that was a bad model to follow?
58. If you could ever take on a new romantic/sexual persona, what would it be?
59. What song do you sing when one is listening?
60. What song do you sing when people are listening?
61. How would define your “ideal” sex life?
62. Have you ever had a recurring nightmare? What is/was it?
63. When did you realize that you loved me?
64. How/when, if at all, have your spirituality and sexuality been in conflict?
65. What is the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?
66. What’s your biggest turn-on?
67. What’s your biggest turn-off?
68. Would you consider yourself to be a realist or a romantic – and why?
69. If someone made a movie or television show of your life, what would the title be?
70. If you could have a friendship or family relationship do-over, what would it be and why?
71. When, if at all, have you ever felt uncomfortable in a relationship?
72. In your life, have you ever held back from expressing yourself? What would you have done if given the opportunity?
73. If you could try any sex toy, what would it be?
74. Your choice! Ask your spouse a question that you’ve always wanted the answer to.

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