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July 2019 Reaching the Summit Dare

July’s Reaching the Summit Dare will help you push yourself to reach new heights! No, we aren’t talking about climbing an actual mountain. This month’s Dare is about reaching the summit of pleasure again and again and again!

Supplies: Whatever smells, tastes, looks, feels, and sounds sexy to you.

Often as wives, we settle for “doing” sex for our husbands, thinking, “If he has a good time, well then, that’s good enough,” regardless of how the experience was for us. If we are fortunate enough to have an orgasm, we often stop sexual activity after one orgasm, thinking, “He and I both had an orgasm so we’re done now. He’d get bored if we tried to bring me to orgasm again.”

July’s Dare challenges you to plan at least one sexual encounter where the focus is all on you and your pleasure. Start by collecting whatever smells, tastes, sounds, looks, and feels sexy or pleasurable to you. Put these items in your very own pleasure basket to keep by your bed or in your nightstand. Perhaps your husband’s cologne or a scented candle gets your motor running. Think about flavors you find delightful. Is there a way to combine this with lovemaking? For example, if you enjoy savoring the taste of a dark chocolate truffle, you could have one ready for you to nibble on while your husband is pleasuring you. Or check out our flavored massage lotions in our online store and use the discount code SUMMIT to save 10% off your merchandise total through July 31, 2019. 

Consider the sounds that you find arousing. Maybe ocean waves do it for you, or a sultry saxophone, or a particular song from when you two were dating. Make a playlist of whatever sounds sexy to you. We’ve created a diverse, all instrumentals Spotify playlist called Reaching the Summit Dare Playlist for you to review so you can listen for what works the best for you in the bedroom. Feel free to create your own personalized “Brings Me Pleasure” playlist.

Think about where you’d like this sexual encounter to take place and what you want to see as you look around the location. Do you love lots of candles and soft lighting? Or maybe you prefer sunlight streaming across your bed and warming your bodies? Which colors and textures do you find pleasurable, and how could you incorporate them into your encounter? This may be the time to buy those silk sheets or lingerie in your favorite color!

Pick a time this month when you’re likely to feel the most sexually responsive (usually the first two weeks of your cycle, and when you ovulate around day 14 in particular) and plan to spend at least an hour having sex. Let your husband know that you want to reach new heights of pleasure with him and would appreciate him taking things slowly and focusing on you. If you reach orgasm, consider trying for another orgasm rather than stopping the lovemaking. You may surprise yourself as you see what your body is capable of! Men are wired to derive tremendous pleasure from watching their wives experience sexual pleasure so don’t worry that he’s getting bored or tired. A turned on you is the best show he’ll watch all month!

Remember to use the discount code SUMMIT for 10% off  your merchandise total in our online store through July 31, 2019. Your purchase helps support our ministry to 7,000 wives across the world who receive the Dare of the Month newsletter.