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February 2023 – I’m Curious Dare

Looking for something to get you and your husband in the mood this Valentine’s Day? Forget oysters or green M & M’s! Curiosity about what matters to your spouse is a powerful aphrodisiac according to Secrets of Sex and Marriage  (release date of 2/7/23). Based on the Marriage Intimacy Project’s research led by Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn, this book’s fascinating findings inspired this month’s sizzling I’m Curious Dare. This will be a Valentine’s Day you’ll both remember!

And if you need a Valentine’s Day gift for your man, Secrets of Sex and Marriage  would be helpful for you two to read together to make your marriage thrive!  

Supplies: List of statements, sensory basket, Valentine lingerie, device to play music, two chairs.

1st, print out the PDF of fill-in-the-blank statements.

2nd, make a sensory basket by placing in it:

·       4 items that smell sexy to you

·       4 items with textures you find pleasurable

·       4 items which taste delicious to you.

For example, you might put in your sensory basket:

Scents: his cologne, your perfume, coffee beans, scented candle

Textures: items which are silky or fluffy or smooth or rough

Tastes: chocolate truffle, peppermint, fresh strawberry, orange slice

3rd, pick four sexy songs you like from our CWIVES Spotify “I’m Curious Dare Playlist” or put together your own playlist of four songs. Have your phone ready to play these four songs.

4th, put two chairs across the room from each other in your bedroom (this Dare is more erotic if the chairs are at least 8 feet apart). Put your sensory basket and the statements list in his chair. Put your phone in your chair.

5th, dress in Valentine’s lingerie under your regular clothes. Here’s a deep V lace teddy that’s only $16.99 and comes in 39 options and plus sizes! Check out the double layer style if see-through lace isn’t your thing.

6th, send your husband a text that says “Hey Valentine, I’m curious if you’re curious about what turns me on. Meet me in the bedroom.”

Invite him to sit in his chair while you sit across the room.

Tell him “Curiosity may have killed the cat, but you can make me purr by being curious about what turns me on. You have a list of fill-in-the-blank statements for you to read aloud. Every time you fill in the blank correctly about me, you get to either:

·       tell me to remove one piece of my clothing that you can currently see

OR

·       tell me to move my chair one foot closer to your chair.”

I’m Curious Fill-in-the-blank Statements (for him to read aloud and fill in the blank with his best guess about what turns her on). Click here to download as a PDF:

1)     I’m curious…is ___________________ the best time of day for you to enjoy sex?

2)     I’m curious…is ___________________ your current favorite intercourse position?

3)     I’m curious…is ________________________ your favorite place in our home to be sexually intimate?

4)     I’m curious…. when we first met, was ____________________ the part of my personality that you found particularly attractive?

5)     I’m curious…when we first met, was _____________________ the part of my body that you found particularly attractive?

6)     I’m curious… is __________________ the part of your body that you wish I would pay more attention to during foreplay?

7)     I’m curious…is that time we had sex in ______________________________ your favorite sexual memory of us?

8)     I’m curious…is __________________________ a location you’ve always wanted to have sex in?

9)     I’m curious…is ________________________ your favorite way to orgasm or be sexually intimate?

Use your phone to play him snippets of the four songs you picked.

10) I’m curious…of these four songs, is ___________________ the one that turns you on the most?

For the next questions, ask him to refer to your sensory basket. If you’re close enough to him by now, he can hold the scents up for you to smell, rub the textures against your skin, feed you, etc.

11) I’m curious…of these four scents, is __________________ the one you find the most sexy?

12) I’m curious… of these four textures, is ________________ the one you would find most sexually arousing against your skin?

13) I’m curious…of these four tastes, is __________________ the one you find most pleasurable?

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